![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() My documentary ‘Dat Zou Jij Nooit Toelaten’ explores shame, self-image, silence and victimhood through my own story and interviews I conducted with two other victims. She added: “But you would never allow that.” I find this image of victimhood interesting initially because it had kept me quiet about my abusive partner for years, but as I delved deeper into my inquiry into victimhood, I found a complex construction of victimhood that resulted in silence amongst victims in many different situations. Pas 2 jaar nadat het uit is accepteert ze dat ze dit heeft meegemaakt en kan ze er over praten. We maken kennis met de 19-jarige studente literatuurstudies, die op vakantie in Engeland de charmante Luis ontmoet. Dat zou jij nooit toelaten In haar studententijd komt Tessel ten Zweege (toen 19) in een gewelddadige relatie. This feeling reached a peak when my friend told me that she noticed my boyfriend behaved really aggressively towards me, and if she wouldn’t know any better, she would think he was abusing me. Dat zou jij nooit toelaten is het verhaal van de Utrechtse student Genderstudies Tessel ten Zweege die tijdens haar studententijd verstrikt raakt in een gewelddadige relatie. Talking about my experience with intimate partner violence was too triggering and uncomfortable for me up until that point: Having constructed a feminist identity and having a clear image of my values and goals did not match with my victimhood. In 2018 I got out of an abusive relationship, though I never spoke about it until 2 years later. ![]()
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